Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Keep at it!

In the blogs in the last couple of weeks, I've noticed a certain amount of disillusionment.

Most of us did pretty well at maintaining or only gaining a little over the festive season. On the whole, those who put on weight have since taken it off again.

But now some lethargy seems to be creeping in. I see lots of comments about how difficult weight loss is at the moment.

Everybody needs a good shot of OOMPH!

One of the questions in the tag that's going around is what you'd do if you were a millionaire. Well, I would visit each and everyone of you and appoint myself as your personal cheering squad and motivational expert.

But, I can't do that - at least not without selling the house! So it's up to you to do it for yourself.

And you've been doing a good job of it up till now. Most of you have come a very long way. Many of you don't actually have very far to go. You need to find that motivation again.

Motivation is different for each of us, but here are some general thoughts about it from me:
  • Think about why you started losing weight and how you felt at that time. Many of you have these thoughts in writing - in diaries, in your WW books, on your blogs. Go back and read all this stuff again. Remember why you are doing this.
  • Remember the first time you looked in the mirror and could see the difference? How great did that feel? How much better will it be when you look in the mirror and see what you look like at goal?
  • Go back to some of the techniques we all used early on. Visualise what you'll look like, how you'll feel, what great clothes you'll buy, how much energy you'll have.
  • Sit down today and write a Pollyanna list. Philippa has just written a great one. That list will help you remember how strong you are, how much you've achieved, what you are capable of doing.
  • We've all used the 'back to basics' method at some time. No matter what plan you're using, go back and start all over again. Read the literature, follow the 'rules', track, weigh portions, plan your weeks food, the lot.
  • There are lots of people - family, friends, colleagues and the blog-world - who are cheering for you. They all care and they're all important. But YOU are the most important person. You need to be doing this for yourself.

Maybe it's time for some more changes in your life. If you feel like you've been doing this forever and it's all a bit dreary, change some things to make the journey more interesting, rather than abandon it all together.

Try some new recipes - lots of people who are less lazy than me post their recipes, so they're easy to find. Try one or two new dishes every week. Try the 'rainbow' approach - there must be at least 3 vegetables of different colours on your plate for dinner every night. Next time you're buying produce, pick up something you've never tried and work out how to prepare it.

Change your exercise routine - and make sure you challenge yourself. If you go to the gym, tell your consultant you want a new programme. Add an extra 15 minutes or a couple of big hills to your daily walk. Become obsessed with the science of exercise (like me, I'm such a nerd), so you understand what works, why it works, when it works.

Do you think about it too much? Maybe you need to introduce something into your day or week that has nothing to do with your weight loss. Read books by authors you've never read before, repaint the spare room, go along to the kids' sports practices, help out at the local soup kitchen.

I've rambled about this for long enough. My main point is - you can do it!

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks Sue! Your post really did make me think a lot about this whole journey. I know it will help many others out there too that are struggling a bit. You are so right - we can do it!

Nancy Bou said...

What a fantastic post! You are right a lot of us seem to need a good kick lately (me especially).

I have gone straight back to basics and putting 100% into it this week and am so noticing the difference.

Have a great week

*hugs*

Kathryn said...

Great post - I've definitely been blah lately.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Sue....I needed to be reminded too. It must be the weather..LOL Well done on efforts so far.
Cheers
Jenny

Leighanne said...

Thanks Sue - you are so right, I too have become a little 'bored' with what I am doing - I need to add a bit of 'spice'..lol

Cinders said...

Well written Sue - and u are so right in recommending going back to basics. And for those who dont like exercising alone, I think another trick is to find a training partner who is depending on you. have a great day.

Lee-Anne said...

You are so on tuit. I feel I'm doing ok, but need to speed things up and introduce a bit of change. My eating is ok, and I'm making healthy choices but where I'm lacking is regular exercise. Have been seriously looking at the Couch-to-5km running plan and telling myself I can do that. But I'm procrastinating again, but this time not as an excuse but because of everything to be done at home. Somehow I need to start real soon while the sun is still shining and the weather is right. Otherwise I'll use winter as an excuse. Hey I'm problem solver, I should be able to solve it. Right?

philippa_moore said...

Sue, what a fantastic post. I've printed out your motivational tips and put them somewhere I can see them.

You should consider a career change to being a life coach or motivational speaker!

Margaret said...

Amen!!

Doing that Pollyanna list now.

Going to kick some weight loss butt :D

Emily Campbell - Independent Stampin' Up!® Demonstrator said...

Can SO tell you're a Sports Mum!!!!

Great post, thanks for the reminder of why we're all here :-)

Unknown said...

I have noticed the same think in the blogs.. I'm feeling pretty motivated at the moment but, like you, have noticed a lot of deflation in ppls blogs!

Thanks for saying what I've been thinking and being such an inspiration

Chubbymum said...

No wonder you have done really well in your weight loss you are an inspiration to me that is for sure.

I have been on a little slump over the last couple of weeks but I am trying to find new ways to get me motivated again.... never never never give up that is my key he he he... going to take me years to get it off but I will never give up.

Thank you for this post!!! mwawwwwhh

Chubbymum

Lucinda said...

Now that is what we needed!

And no, I don't own a hat with corks - but when I buy one I'll send one for the pet sheep.

Lame, but it was all I could come up with - i blame the public holiday!

Mary said...

Thank you Sue, you're a gem!

Briony said...

I really needed that today, thanks Sue!
Bri

Baby Bump Wanted said...

great post, i really needed to hear that, i have been on a down hill slide the last week and not sure why, i really need some motivation and that list was great. back to basics i think
thanks fiona

Julie's Journey said...

Oh Sue, I feel such a wuss after reading your post. I am going to get activated - thanks dear girl for the wake up call and the motivation. Many hugs
Julie

RaeC said...

Awesome post Sue!! The only difference between 'try' and 'triumph' is a little 'umph'!!

Rae :)

Esther said...

Bravo!

Leyzafool said...

You are definetely on the money Sue. I have been deflated ever since Boxing Day and have struggled to get back on track properly. Reading your post has made me realise I need a kickstart.
I'm with you Sue. Bring on the good ole OOMPH!!